Well I just found out my sister is getting married this summer in a literal French chateau(we have family over there that are suuuuuper loaded old blood that my grandfathers older brother literally fell into) and I really don’t want to go mostly because of traveling on a trans Atlantic flight with a child sounds shitty. I I can’t just leave my daughter at home because she’s going to want to come and I don’t want to dump her on my friends. So do any of you have any advice? I’ll take anything.