My ex wife had a family member that raised chickens in rural Japan. He had a young boy that died at around 6. Fast forward a few years later, he had been steadily drinking a bit more and more. One night he was barreling through the country-side in his pick up, when the dark night lights up with police lights, they pull him over, walk over to the truck and ask him where he is going, if he had been drinking etc. they check over everything and decide to just give him a ticket for the kid in the truck not wearing his seat belt. He stopped drinking that night.