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    Mortal DictataNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 5:36pm

    He also said harassment claims were “overblown,” that he has a “flirty” personality, and also that the woman Skiddler was sticking up for was wearing “a really, really, really revealing top,” which prompted him to comment on it.

    Bit like how this is prompting me to label him being a complete and total cunt.

    (also can we stop using the word “controversial” to describe sexual harassers, given how the word suggests there’s a two-sided argument of note)

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      JediaKyrolMortal Dictata
      10/18/18 5:47pm

      “just look at her...she was asking for it.”

      yes...that defense makes you look like the good guy....no...wait...

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      SteamedcarpetMortal Dictata
      10/18/18 5:53pm

      I wish I could backhand him so badly for saying that.

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    IsonoxNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 5:42pm

    Say it with me now:

    “I’m sorry to anyone who was offended”

    is

    not

    an

    apology.

    Face the consequences of your actions, child.

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      SkaOreoIsonox
      10/18/18 6:29pm

      Precisely. It’s a not apology that puts the onus entirely on the person who was offended. Because that’s just the way he is—it’s not his fault that “you’re” offended.

      It’s dog-whistling for his toxic base so they can ralley around what fuckboy assholes they are.  And then bitch and whine and can’t believe that women won’t go for guys that are as “nice” as they are.

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      SulfyIsonox
      10/18/18 8:00pm

      It takes a lot of courage to admit when you’re in the wrong and to make a real, honest change. It takes a lot of courage.

      People that use that phrase? Cowards. All of them. 

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    No More College GranddadNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 6:03pm

    If I drove around in a Ferrari, then people would comment on the Ferrari. That’s just the way people are.

    BOOOOOIIIII

    Let’s use this analogy. Yes, people would comment on your car. They wouldn’t say, “damn those people inside are looking nice in that car”. If a woman is wearing anything, yeah, you can comment on the clothing, not how much cleavage she’s showing. What a dumbass

    Oh and also:

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      Jacob HNo More College Granddad
      10/18/18 6:30pm

      the most disturbing part of that picture is the baby monitor

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      SkaOreoNo More College Granddad
      10/18/18 6:31pm

      Oh so he’s also a racist piece of shit too.

      Good to see just hitting all those “alt-right fuckboy” points.

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    ArnheimNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 5:57pm

    I said it on the other story, and I’ll say it again here:

    A woman’s mode of dress (or a man’s, for that matter) does not entitle anyone to make sexual comments regarding that mode of dress.

    For this guy to say, “She was wearing a really, really, really revealing top, so I commented on it,” is part of the same line of thinking that produces such pearls of wisdom as, “She was asking for it (rape), the way she was dressed!”

    Here’s the thing: As a hetero dude, I’ve never once felt compelled to comment on someone else’s choice of attire to their face—or in their presence. I have certainly thought things. I have turned to friends later, when the person I was talking about had gone on to other things, and said, “Damn. Did you see so and so? They were looking good!”

    ...I have never said something like, “Meet so-and-so, and her boobs,” like this jackass did.

    And before anyone says, “Oh, he was just being flirty,” there’s a wide, wide gulf of difference between “flirty” and “the kind of commentary that is a couple of steps beyond the shitty one-liners guys tossed around as jokes at frat parties.” It’s not sexy, it’s not attractive, and it’s not anything like “manly” behavior.

    And this doesn’t even take into account the fact that this asshat grabbed a woman’s face and attempted to kiss her.

    That is not flirting. That is assault.

    Full fucking stop.

    Again, I’m a straight dude. I’ve always been into women, and I have met some damn attractive women in my life (my wife being the most beautiful woman in the world, in my eyes). I’ve definitely had thoughts about some of those women.

    But I’ve never done anything about those thoughts beyond saying, “Hey, my name’s <Arnheim>. How’s it going,” and seeing if the conversation went anywhere from there.

    Everyone’s going to have urges and desires—but urges and desires are a product of hormones (and the genitals). My dick, the last time I checked, was a tool—and just as a hammer doesn’t force my hand to drive a nail, my dick isn’t going to force me to behave in an untoward, creepy, or assaulting manner to another human being.

    Guys, seriously, stop making excuses for yourselves, and control your goddamned tool, rather than letting it control you--which makes you a tool yourself.

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      badhrasArnheim
      10/18/18 6:22pm

      You regularly make such great comments, that I’ve decided to follow you.

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      KraftyArnheim
      10/18/18 6:26pm

      Wut? Thats not assault. And yes, its totally fine to comment negatively on other people. Its perfectly fine for you to call this dude a shitbag, and its perfectly fine for him to call out someone for wearing something revealing. Its also fine to call this dude hilarious, and to laugh at someone for covering up their body like a nun.

      Being an asshole is not a crime. Being virtuous doesnt make you a hero either.

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    SteamedcarpetNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 5:50pm

    “He also said harassment claims were “overblown,” that he has a “flirty” personality, and also that the woman Skiddler was sticking up for was wearing “a really, really, really revealing top,” which prompted him to comment on it.”

    Are you fucking kidding me with this bs excuse? Number 1 rule: What a woman wears is none of your god damn business. 

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      evilfacelessturtle (Hooning a Ford is Domestic Abuse)Steamedcarpet
      10/19/18 12:10am

      It’s almost like he took a caricature of every stereotypical bad response as his template.

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    J11WarsNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 5:39pm

    I blame all of this shit from Proud Boys to Twitch and YouTube drama on a decline in bullying. We used to be able to keep weirdos in their place.

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      No More College Granddadmerged-5876237249239191147-nxunzo2
      10/18/18 5:59pm

      Yeah when people start making money, what they do doesn’t matter anymore. Thankfully it’s sorta changing but not enough for my tastes.

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      Sandrockcstm Gamingmerged-5876237249239191147-nxunzo2
      10/18/18 7:11pm

      Social consequences for Nazis, homophobes, and sexual predators =/= bullying.  That’s punching up.

      Bullying punches down.  

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    Emerald_Mara85Nathan Grayson
    10/18/18 7:15pm

    Translation on Gross Grabber:

    And I apologize if the woman took offense = I want to continue being an asshole

    If I drove around in a Ferrari, then people would comment on the Ferrari. That’s just the way people are = Women are objects to me

    So I really am sorry to the streamer that was offended and anybody else that was offended = I will continue stalking people for fun

    30 days is too lenient and its obvious Gross Grabber is not sorry at all.

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      FieryrebirthEmerald_Mara85
      10/19/18 8:33am

      Spot on.

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    H.A.L.Nathan Grayson
    10/18/18 5:34pm

    This guy is such a repeat F-up / creeper @_@ He made such a dramatic attempt to re-brand himself after his last giant mess-up and now he goes and does this?

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      Mortal DictataH.A.L.
      10/18/18 5:43pm

      Hey it worked for the KSI prick, who went round Eurogamer a few years back and sexually harassed female staff as a joke...

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      FieryrebirthMortal Dictata
      10/19/18 8:32am

      “Joke”. Riiiight.

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    SkaOreoNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 6:33pm

    or was wearing “a really, really, really revealing top,” which prompted him to comment on it. “That’s life,” Larsen said at the time. “If I drove around in a Ferrari, then people would comment on the Ferrari. That’s just the way people are. And I apologize if the woman took offense.”

    Like...how stupid do you have to be? It’s either that or he’s trying to pull a Trump, and trying to actively be as shitty as possible in order to appeal to all the 10 year olds who think he’s cool.

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    Stray the PathNathan Grayson
    10/18/18 6:13pm

    Yes, Larsen. Let’s continue your streak of blatant and unrepentant objectification of women by equating them to owning a *car*, we’ll tack that on with the video recorded attempt to kiss a woman and then yelling, “SHE’S MY GIRLFRIEND BRUV” when someone tells you to quit your shit and the handful of lies you’ve made regarding the incidents since.

    You are not the victim. You are the predator. The sooner you own up to your behavior, the sooner you might apologize to the world for being shit and trying to improve on that. Which, really, is your only option here going forward.

    And by the way, if the excuse is, “Well, I was drinking.” Then that means you can’t drink responsibly and either need to have one of your boys babysitting you or not drink. Period. Preferably the latter, since it’s real fucking doubtful any of the ‘lads’ you run with can be trusted with keeping you in line.

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