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    CleverUsernameTaylor Berman
    10/14/14 11:36am

    When I was in high school, there was a Hawaiian-themed dance for which there were a few adult/parent sponsors who promoted the event. I remember a few of the adults coming into my English class to dance around and pretend like they were in an Elvis movie and hand out leis.

    Since I apparently had the teenage boy version of bitchy resting face, one of the women came up to me to give me a lei and loudly exclaimed with a wink and a smile, "He looks like he needs to get lei'd/laid in the worst way!"

    I was a virgin at that point and would remain one for a few years after that. It really bothered me that an adult woman would assume so much about my sexuality and even sexual orientation and would openly joke about it. I didn't know what I wanted out of sex, and I knew that everyone thought that I should be happy to receive this woman's joking advances. I was confused, angry, and embarrassed.

    So, I know how I felt after a very short and very brief incident that was not at all serious and certainly meant almost nothing. I can't imagine how much trouble I would have had processing a 3-way with two of my teachers.

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      Isaac88CleverUsername
      10/14/14 12:00pm

      It sounds to me that you wouldn't have had the three way in the first place. Which is a good thing. By all accounts I've read he was totally ok about it until the repercussions came to pass.

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      CleverUsernameIsaac88
      10/14/14 12:36pm

      That's the point: He may not even know that he is conflicted about it, or unable to process the emotional impact of it. Yes, he might be fine, but he also might have a debilitating emotional issue that will affect his views on sex for years.

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    Harley QuinnTaylor Berman
    10/14/14 9:47am

    The bizzaro reactions that people have when its a boy who is sexually abused vs. a girl needs to stop.

    Every case where a female teacher is the one who is the guilty party gets off lightly (pun unintended) If these were two male teachers, the pitchforks couldn't be made fast enough.

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      barebranchHarley Quinn
      10/14/14 12:18pm

      If you think an otherwise healthy and mentally competent 17 year old male (and we have been given no reason to think that he's not both of those things) was sexually "abused" by engaging in a, by all accounts, consensual carnal relationship with 2 women, then I'm guessing you probably are also the type of person who thinks honey is bee rape.

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      Harley Quinnbarebranch
      10/14/14 1:38pm

      Way to miss the point....which was if this was a female student, and 2 male teachers there would be dire consequences for the teachers.

      Regardless, he was abused because they are taking advantage of him and his ignorance in order to get what they want from him even though they fully understood the consequences of their actions on their families, careers, and lives. But now he - a 17 year old highschool boy with zero life experience- is feeling bad when the teachers 1. should have known better 2. never gotten near him. 3. are the perpetrators

      Miss me with the bee talk, the only person who doesn't get whats going on here is you, honey.

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    acornTaylor Berman
    10/14/14 9:45am

    God, this story just keeps getting more and more sad. This kid should NOT have to feel responsible for any of the consequences these teachers face. They are wholly responsible for any and all repercussions that come their way. I hope they go to prison.

    I also really hope this kid is going to be okay; it sounds like he's really struggling with some conflicted emotions right now.

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      Queensowntaliaacorn
      10/14/14 9:52am

      I don't know. I've got to say I think it would be a great deal more worrisome if he was, instead, like, "Ha, screw them. They got what's coming to them." This just tells me he's compassionate, which is good.

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      acornQueensowntalia
      10/14/14 10:02am

      Huh? Do you not think being fired, losing their teaching certifications, and (hopefully) facing some real jail time is appropriate?

      I'm glad this boy is compassionate but as a survivor of sexual abuse, this type of guilt and feeling of responsibility over the negative consequences befalling his abusers (that's what they are, plain and simple) is highly disturbing. The types of predators that abuse children like this knowingly and carefully manipulate their victims into feeling this way as a safeguard for themselves. Hearing this from this boy is upsetting because the mental and emotional damage far outlasts any physical damage. A lot of people are commenting that this isn't a big deal because he probably enjoyed it as a horny teenager; that might be true, but I'm just hoping that he doesn't suffer for years to come due to the psychological harm and confusion caused by these two.

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    Jason_IIATMSTaylor Berman
    10/14/14 9:42am

    "Teen Who Bragged About Threesome With His Teachers "Feels Really Bad"

    A shot will clear that up, kiddo.

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      LangostaJason_IIATMS
      10/14/14 9:56am

      Now all of the cheerleaders who already thought he was a stud are going to want to "console" him. This guy has it all figured out.

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      EntropicsLangosta
      10/14/14 10:07am

      Now that he's sampled the wares of depraved, adult scofflaws, those cheer girls will bore him to tears. Those who opine this didn't do him any damage are wrong, he's skipping a lot of steps. He'll be needing choking and pegging way before his peers. He's on the David Caradine fast track.

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